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Unusual Friendships

Friendship

Friendship is the comfort, the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words, but pouring all right out just as they are, chaff and grain together, certain that a faithful friendly hand will take and sift them, keep what is worth keeping and, with a breath of comfort, blow the rest away.” ~Dianh Mulock Craik (1826-1887)

friendship

affection, affinity, alliance, amity, attachment, benevolence, closeness, concord, familiarity, fondness, friendliness, good-fellowship, goodwill, harmony, intimacy, love, rapport, regard

To me, there is a very strong word reflected in the quote that does not appear in the list of synonyms for friendship:

comfort

abundance, alleviation, amenity, assuagement, bed of roses, cheer, cheerfulness, complacency, contentment, convenience, coziness, creature comforts, enjoyment, exhilaration, facility, gratification, happiness, luxury, opulence, peacefulness, pleasure, plenty, poise, quiet, relaxation, relief, repose, rest, restfulness, satisfaction, snugness, succor, sufficiency, warmth, well-being

Do you see any synonym of comfort that does not lie within the boundaries of friendship? Where would we be without friends? The need to reach out to someone is ever present whether in times of happiness or despair. These are definitely the times and places where hugs are universal!

Within friendship, there indeed abides comfort!”

If these pictures are true representations (never can tell with the capabilities of technology today), why is it humans have such difficulty coexisting?

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Announcing: The Beauty of a Woman BlogFest II!

This is a great opportunity for bloggers to come together, make new acquaintances and share their writing. NOT just for women…men definitely have an eye for the beauty in a woman!

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Announcing: The Beauty of a Woman BlogFest II!

Words, stories and music… I struggle to think of entities more powerful. When I was enduring the darkest time of my life, the eating disorder I shared in my last post, this poem struck me like a dart between the eyes, pinning me to a wall of “What if?” What if its words hold true—not just rationally or solely for other people, but in my heart, soul and beliefs? What if we’re all beautiful and the truest, deepest beauty has little to do with shape or size? What if the “something more” so many of us long for exists inside of us, waiting to be unlocked and cherished? What if I wasn’t afraid of being large, but living large? And in doing so, missing out on the most remarkable beauty of all? Read MORE. . . and SIGN UP!

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Awakenings Official Book Launch

AWAKENINGS from THEN ’til NOW is officially available @Amazon.com as of 12:01 am this morning, January 22, 2013.

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Get into the swing of things…

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Always a touch of catnip!

This is America’s story. . . YOUR story in poetic verse for inspiration toward understanding the sacrifices made in establishing and maintaining America’s freedom.

Awakenings is a journey through time. Within the pages of this book is a chance for you to uncover how past experiences, as well as your ancestry, connect to the present and ultimately define your future.

Embrace the past, empower the present, enrich the future. You are not an isolated individual but a thread binding together with countless other threads to create a rich and colorful tapestry of life. From the far reaches of America’s past, we can all, in some way or another, connect to someone who set foot upon America’s soil looking for a land of promise. It is through laughter and tears that the yesterdays of centuries past paved the way for today’s future.

PERSONAL NOTE: Proceeds benefit Wounded Warrior Program and Veterans of Foreign Wars. This is purely a personal decision and in no way connected to either program for advertisement or endorsement.

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Join Me in a Cup of Coffee

CoffeeLen of myownheart.me has asked that I join her for a cup of coffee

1) How many cups of coffee per day? 

One cup in the morning…half at the time: 1/2 before breakfast, 1/2 with breakfast. THEN, one to two cups of cappuccino in the afternoon!!!!!

2) What is your favourite caffeine delivery system?

 That would be chocolate…chocolate covered caramels! Of course, the frozen Twix is to die for!

3) What was your best cup of coffee?

Definitely the cappuccino…yum!

4) What was your worst cup of coffee?

Starbuck’s YUCK!! Don’t ever order black coffee!

5) What does your favourite mug say?

Mickey Mouse…LOL ;)

6) How do you take your coffee?

 BLACK in the morning!!

7) When was your first cup?

I have absolutely no idea. I do remember taking it with cream and sugar but got rid of both through the years. ;)

8) Have you ever gone on a coffee tea date?

Nope. Is this one? If so, it is my first ;)

The most difficult part is not the receiving the invitation nor thanking the sender. It is not even the questions for these require fairly simple answers without a great deal of thought and are truly fun to think about. Hardest for me is the giving…who to invite? Who not to invite? Is there anyone I would NOT like to join me in a cup of coffee?

Since joining the blogosphere I have met so many wonderful people and established some of the best friendships ever! I want to THANK all of my visitors and followers for stopping by for a little catnip to hopefully carry you through the day with a smile.

My Invitation…

It is with thankfulness and gratitude that I invite all readers of this blog post for coffee. In accepting the invitation, Like and/or leave a comment, copy the questions, answer and post to your site along with your invites.

Have fun and have a cup of coffee while completing your post and invitations. If you don’t like coffee, have a cup of tea or whatever you prefer. Just enjoy the day and smile 🙂

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 Complete this sentence: A morning without coffee is…

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NATIONAL HUG DAY

With all the posts catnip has been featuring lately about hugs, she was not aware of the National Hug Day. Well, there is one and it is today, January 21. Visit Awakenings for information about this national day. Don’t leave without watching the two videos.

Awakenings: National Hug Day

Click the picture!

Also here are the links to the prior “HUGS” posts from catnipoflife in case you missed them:

Hugs Sent Your Way. . . 

HUGS & THANK YOUS!

HUGS: The Universal Language

Hugs, Hugs, & More Hugs: Are you a hugger?

Of course, I have to leave you with a new video. In this one, be sure to look closely at the expressions on the animals’ faces. Don’t tell me they do not have feelings!

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Free Write Friday #17: Quote Prompt

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Image Credit: Maddy Bartlett

Kellie Elmore pierced my heart with this one as I reveled in a memory abiding in my soul. Thoughts are already flooding my brain as I prepare for Kellie Elmore’s Free Write Friday! If you are new here, please click to read the intro.

[Kellie, I just found this message in my mega-email so it may not be Friday but I am up to the challenge today.]

This quote is taken from The Perks of Being a Wallflower by Stephen Chbosky

Does this quote remind you of the abandon and freedom of youth? Or maybe you have one moment that comes to mind? Or maybe the word infinite leaves you pondering its possibilities? Whatever this line says to you, it says this to me…

[Remember this is a free write so corrections are not allowed even if spellcheck denotes an error.]

Infinite Love

June 20, 1981

You stepped through the door
In an instant, a flash
Our eyes connected
My heart…crash, crash

Been through this before
Beating so hard, so fast
What could I do
To make this one last?

Awestruck at most
Breathless at least
Love, love, love
What a beast!

The feeling’s there
I cannot control
It’s not the same – this time
Down to my soul

You must sense
What I feel’s devine
Your eyes, your eyes
Drawn into mine

I swear in that moment, we were infinite… we are infinite!

 
©2013 catnipoflife
Sharla Lee Shults

Other Contributions:

Mark: http://malekoarts.wordpress.com/2013/01/19/i-swear-we-were-infinite/

Len: http://myownheart.me/2013/01/18/infinite-love-fwf/

Terri: http://terry1954.wordpress.com/2013/01/18/fwf-free-write-friday-the-perks-of-being-a-wallflower/

Grace: http://graceunveiledblog.wordpress.com/2013/01/18/infinite/

Christy: http://poeticparfait.com/2013/01/18/writing-prompt-motivation/

justonemomma: http://wp.me/p34TkK-6

Sean: http://seanbidd.com/2013/01/19/and-in-that-moment-i-swear-we-were-infinity-fwf-free-write-friday/

cshowers: http://burningfireshutinmybones.wordpress.com/2013/01/19/infinite/

Annie: http://www.anniestexasmusings.com/16/post/2013/01/in-that-moment.html

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A Treasury of Thoughts: Inspiring Quotes To Live By

A treasury of thoughts
To inspire your way
To savor, to cherish
Today, every day

Thoughtful reflections
To carry you through
To sooth, to comfort
In times that are blue

Words of wisdom
A beacon they provide
Shining day & night
Always life’s guide

Like footprints in the sand
Soon washed away
Only to return
The very next day

  
©2013 catnipoflife
Sharla Lee Shults

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Inspiration: Butterflies or Dragons?

[NOTE: This is my second article written at the request of Aditya Samitinjay. Aditya is a student of Medicine and lives in India. He features great articles, Living Healthy – The Right Way, life changing stories and lots of inspiration on his blogsite. This article hot off the press and can be read at Being Chirpy! and Storylane.

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Life is drama personified with episodes of both butterflies and dragons with a few butterfly dragons being tossed into the mix along the way.

Butterflies or Dragons?

Here is a teaser. . .

What are your triggers for inspiration…things that are seen or that which is unseen? Emotions through experience or feelings from the gut? Touchables or untouchables? Mirrored images or broken glass? Butterflies or dragons?

It is early morning. With eyes barely open, you stretch and yawn, afterward rubbing the sleepy matter crusted in the corner of each eye. Toes wiggle trying to ease foot cramps, legs ache from being in the same position too long, shoulders still feel tired from the weights not being lifted from the day before. Your feet hardly hit the floor when thoughts awaken your senses flitting and fluttering through the corridors of your mind. They dance angelically, yet fervently, much like the atala butterflies seeking the sweet, sweet nectar from summer’s enticing florets or greet you with a horrid headache as a result of fighting dragons all through the night.

With the day just beginning, what triggered those thoughts exactly, so early with daylight scarcely visible? Hey, you are hardly awake! You haven’t even had the tiniest hint of caffeine to jolt your brain cells into action or set your eyesight on what the day even looks like.

Want to read more? You will need to go to Being Chirpy! or Storylane in order to read the entire article. . .

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Hugs, Hugs, & More Hugs: Are you a hugger?

One cannot give nor receive enough hugs! Not too long ago catnip featured Hugs: The Universal Language. Being universal means you can hug in Chinese, French, German, Spanish, Portuguese, Malaysian, Russian, etc., etc., etc.

Regardless of the language, a hug is still a hug. It takes on different forms as variances in the hug project different meanings being dependent, of course, on the mood of the moment. For instance, a warm, passionate hug could be followed by a French kiss. A feeling of excitement could result in a strong, German hug where the feeling of broken ribs might enter into play.

Because of the hug’s universality I am sending you a passel, a bushel and a peck, a plethora of hugs your way! Grab hold to at least one and pass it on. . .

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There are those who wish hugs to be banned
What a sad day when one cannot extend a hand

For you see it is that extended part
From which the hug initially starts

Relinquishing all doubt whether needed or loved
All that matters is bound in just one simple hug

Are you a hugger?

Before leaving, you must visit Ute Smile and  Hug – ology. While there, browse around her wonderful site. . .

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Thank you, Lesley, for recognizing Awakenings in your latest post. Lesley Fletcher is the author of 5 Pillars of the Gypsy. This is her newest book and contains both her unique art and inspiring verse. I encourage you to explore her blog. You definitely will come away with the desire to return for more!

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The word ‘awakening’, in my humble opinion is sure to be the buzz word of 2013. The world events in 2012 gave many a rude awakening. Although these horrid events have happened for centuries all over the world, the fact that we are subjected to details quickly and accurately to the point of bombardment with thanks to social media and the Internet has left many reeling.
I counted the number of times during the normal process of my day that the word was contained in blog posts, articles, book titles, poems, magazines etc… and came up with an astounding 48 times in one week.
Now there are several ways to identify ‘awakenings’ both in the spiritual sense and in the common sense areas. Some people need a super dose in the common sense area but I am comfortable letting Karma take care of them. In the spiritual sense…

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