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Unusual Friendships

Friendship

Friendship is the comfort, the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words, but pouring all right out just as they are, chaff and grain together, certain that a faithful friendly hand will take and sift them, keep what is worth keeping and, with a breath of comfort, blow the rest away.” ~Dianh Mulock Craik (1826-1887)

friendship

affection, affinity, alliance, amity, attachment, benevolence, closeness, concord, familiarity, fondness, friendliness, good-fellowship, goodwill, harmony, intimacy, love, rapport, regard

To me, there is a very strong word reflected in the quote that does not appear in the list of synonyms for friendship:

comfort

abundance, alleviation, amenity, assuagement, bed of roses, cheer, cheerfulness, complacency, contentment, convenience, coziness, creature comforts, enjoyment, exhilaration, facility, gratification, happiness, luxury, opulence, peacefulness, pleasure, plenty, poise, quiet, relaxation, relief, repose, rest, restfulness, satisfaction, snugness, succor, sufficiency, warmth, well-being

Do you see any synonym of comfort that does not lie within the boundaries of friendship? Where would we be without friends? The need to reach out to someone is ever present whether in times of happiness or despair. These are definitely the times and places where hugs are universal!

Within friendship, there indeed abides comfort!”

If these pictures are true representations (never can tell with the capabilities of technology today), why is it humans have such difficulty coexisting?

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Inspiration: Butterflies or Dragons?

[NOTE: This is my second article written at the request of Aditya Samitinjay. Aditya is a student of Medicine and lives in India. He features great articles, Living Healthy – The Right Way, life changing stories and lots of inspiration on his blogsite. This article hot off the press and can be read at Being Chirpy! and Storylane.

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Life is drama personified with episodes of both butterflies and dragons with a few butterfly dragons being tossed into the mix along the way.

Butterflies or Dragons?

Here is a teaser. . .

What are your triggers for inspiration…things that are seen or that which is unseen? Emotions through experience or feelings from the gut? Touchables or untouchables? Mirrored images or broken glass? Butterflies or dragons?

It is early morning. With eyes barely open, you stretch and yawn, afterward rubbing the sleepy matter crusted in the corner of each eye. Toes wiggle trying to ease foot cramps, legs ache from being in the same position too long, shoulders still feel tired from the weights not being lifted from the day before. Your feet hardly hit the floor when thoughts awaken your senses flitting and fluttering through the corridors of your mind. They dance angelically, yet fervently, much like the atala butterflies seeking the sweet, sweet nectar from summer’s enticing florets or greet you with a horrid headache as a result of fighting dragons all through the night.

With the day just beginning, what triggered those thoughts exactly, so early with daylight scarcely visible? Hey, you are hardly awake! You haven’t even had the tiniest hint of caffeine to jolt your brain cells into action or set your eyesight on what the day even looks like.

Want to read more? You will need to go to Being Chirpy! or Storylane in order to read the entire article. . .

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Hugs, Hugs, & More Hugs: Are you a hugger?

One cannot give nor receive enough hugs! Not too long ago catnip featured Hugs: The Universal Language. Being universal means you can hug in Chinese, French, German, Spanish, Portuguese, Malaysian, Russian, etc., etc., etc.

Regardless of the language, a hug is still a hug. It takes on different forms as variances in the hug project different meanings being dependent, of course, on the mood of the moment. For instance, a warm, passionate hug could be followed by a French kiss. A feeling of excitement could result in a strong, German hug where the feeling of broken ribs might enter into play.

Because of the hug’s universality I am sending you a passel, a bushel and a peck, a plethora of hugs your way! Grab hold to at least one and pass it on. . .

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There are those who wish hugs to be banned
What a sad day when one cannot extend a hand

For you see it is that extended part
From which the hug initially starts

Relinquishing all doubt whether needed or loved
All that matters is bound in just one simple hug

Are you a hugger?

Before leaving, you must visit Ute Smile and  Hug – ology. While there, browse around her wonderful site. . .

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The Glass Winged Butterfly

Greta_oto You can see through window panes, glass doors, shards of crystal, precious gems but have you ever thought about seeing clearly through a butterfly’s wings? Well, you can! The Glasswinged Butterfly (Greto oto) has translucent wings, very unique, very delicate. In other words, its wings become windows.

one thinks all has been seen
then a butterfly comes into view
a marvel of nature
you can see right through

clear through its wings
to the leaves or ground
wonders of nature
always abound

Glass Winged Butterfly from worldTC
Having enjoyed the slideshow, now feast your eyes upon the video!
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A Pristine Side of Winter

IceCrystalsAwaken inner thoughts of beauty and solitude even in the bleakness of Winter. Put your imagination to work with some new, rather unique, visions of Jack Frost. While it may be br-r-r-r cold outside, there is so much beauty to behold during the season of Winter. Yes, that’s right! Don’t be misled by visions of the drab, dreary, gloomy side of Winter but look around at the amazing sights that can only be encountered in the coldest season of the year.

Relish in the Winter spirit. The cold, crisp air refreshes the lungs with a quiet walk where the only sounds are the crunching of ice crystals underfoot. Listen to the wind-chimes as the North Wind sends a swift brush of cold through the air.  Examine every tree, shrub, plant and field as it displays its own uniqueness having been gently touched by nature’s paintbrush of downy white.

You can find solace deep within yourself once you are lost in a daydream that explores the magical mysteries of Winter. Cleansing, refreshing, invigorating! Then, enjoying the warmth of a cozy fireplace after such an exhilarating experience invites a steaming hot cup of white chocolate cocoa spiked with a stick of cinnamon:)

Jack Frost invites you to experience a pristine side of Winter. . .

(Be sure to click the tiny square at the bottom right to watch the video in full screen view.)

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What is your blueprint for writing?

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Where do think the inspiration arose to build a house whose windows offer a 360° view from the Pacific Ocean to the Channel Islands to Boney Mountain to the Serrano Valley toward sunsets and a sky flooded with city lights? What inspired a seamless expanse of glass? Could it be the influence of its intimate connection with nature?

An open window’s unique view
Thrusts awareness upon you
Look up, look down, look left, look right
Inspiration lies in plain sight

Make note of what you see
There’s magic in imagery
Spirits of inspiration
Whisper through imagination

©2012 catnipoflife
Sharla Lee Shults

Imagination  ̴  a Blueprint for Writing

[NOTE: This is an article written at the request of Aditya Samitinjay. Aditya is a student of Medicine and lives in India. I encourage you to visit his blogsite Being Chirpy! He features some great articles, Living Healthy – The Right Way, life changing stories and lots of inspiration.]

Each of us approaches writing from different viewpoints but each writer brings to the writing board knowledge, experience, and awareness or perhaps a blending, which has been known to result in a mishmash of random thoughts. Sometimes ideas expand life’s very existence and soar on the wings of imagination. Such mental flights lead to destinations beyond reality into a realm of wonder. But, what inspires the mind to enter into this imaginative domain: Is it fact bound by secretive desires or vessels bearing messages of sheer fantasy? Is it simply a matter of fact or fantasy, or could both be carriers of this infectious passion to imagine?

ArchitectToolsTake the architect for example: the designer behind that which puts inspired visions and the very essence of imagination to their ultimate test. What are his tools? Is his drawing board really much different from a writer’s writing board? Doesn’t architectural design require going beyond the limits into depths sometimes totally unfathomable? Like the writer, the architect must begin with ideas utilizing knowledge, awareness and experience. Throughout the planning phase, random thoughts may shift the facts opening windows toward dreams, a fantasy ultimately becoming reality.

Some basic architectural tools necessary in producing the blueprint, or design plan, include the drawing board, compass and triangle. Let’s examine how each perhaps has its own place on the writing board and what each one has to offer as inspiration.

Drawing board – The Soul

DrawingBoard1Guileless, mind-boggling, gut-wrenching, heart-warming, such descriptors shape the whole and parts that comprise the soul or platform for either design attempts or writing. But, here again, where does the inspiration lie? If the goal is simplicity, perhaps knowledge alone is enough to inspire documentation supported by discovery and research. Life, however, is a journey during which a vast amount of knowledge is accumulated along the way. Real-life experiences fill in the gaps thereby creating uniqueness. It is within such experiences where inspiration is gathered and shared. Most important, however, is awareness: being able to observe and listen to life’s quiet whisperings.

Think about it: A person can be blessed with a plethora of knowledge along with multiple experiences to his credit yet be totally deft to the whispers of awareness.

The architect’s drawing board is the soul for the writer. This is where the written word presents itself in forms that reach the deepest depths of the gut or adds flair and flavor to warm the coldest heart. It is here that the spirit reflects light or darkness, seriousness or humor, individuality or family, peacetime or war, beauty or beastliness, or perhaps faith, charity and love.

This is where imagination meets creativity: awareness is intense, inspiration is born.

Triangle – The Heart

TrianglesWhether creative non-fiction, fiction or poetry, all three propagate from emotion echoing directly from the heart. Encounters in life lead to different forms of writing for different purposes—fascination, relaxation or inspiration. Fascination feeds the imagination and breeds fantasy. Relaxation of the mind stills the heart. Uplifting words reflect on individual or family occurrences, camaraderie and adversity, love, hope, and reality, as well as dreams and fantasies. Words of wisdom often present themselves as encouragement throughout the day or through an eventful time in life allowing emotions to escalate or simmer.

For the architect, the triangle is used for precision and venturing outside the circle much like the writer who thinks outside the box. Triangulation occurs within the writer’s heart as emotions vacillate from frustration, anger and despair to love, passion and fear while confronting possible shadows of loneliness, shame and rejection. Within a moment’s time, feelings of joy, isolation and being downright scared exist as the heart maintains rhythm, color and style!

Remember, life is a journey; let its destination be where the heart wants to be. Don’t listen to voices of doubt and dissent; inspiration takes control when you listen to your heart.

Compass – The Mind

CompassThe mind constantly changes direction and writing can sometimes present itself in full circle bringing you back to where you started – a 360° turn – with feelings of ‘spinning your wheels’ so to speak. The ideas are there but the connection has not been made as the mind randomly shifts from one thought to another. Yet, don’t let go completely of any random thought for it may be the seed from which new inspiration grows.

This is the place where sectors present themselves in varying degrees. Where the compass bisects angles and produces arcs of different degree measures for the architect, so do the words, ideas, expressions and thoughts of the writer present varying degrees of interpretation and perception as they pass through the corridors of the mind. They slip and slide, are cut and replaced, bound together and segmented, overturned and overlooked until the pieces fit together and flow smoothly from beginning to end.

Without the mind’s compass to cross the divides and frame the intersections, the blueprint would be imaginative but fail to meet the challenge of inspiration. Sometimes it is best to just stop. Walk away. Step outside and listen to life’s songs. A quiet mind echoes inspiration of the heart and soul.

The Blueprint – The Body

BlueprintFull throttle ahead . . . the platform is set, emotions are in place, the mind is focused! While the compass and triangle bring life to the architect’s drawing board, the heart, mind and soul transport thoughts, feelings and desires to the writing board. The embodiment of all things imagined is heightened through inspiration and awareness acquired along life’s journey.

So, how does imagination become the blueprint for writing? It comes from conscious awareness of all that is around you. It is the scariest of the scariest, the loveliest of the loveliest, the good with the bad, the happy and the sad. It is inspiration received from observing life at its best (or worst), listening to life’s songs, embracing life’s bounties, breathing the breath of life and above all savoring life to its fullest. It’s looking upward watching white puffs of cotton become shades of pink cotton candy then, quickly transforming into deep shades of grey waiting to quench the thirst of all willing to savor and cherish every drop. It is the Atala butterflies hovering in the wind radiating incandescent blue-green on their wings as red-orange abdomens expand in the sun. It is the angel of light appearing through the mist casting sunbeams that overcome the shadows. It is the ladybird feeding on the whitefly and aphids revealing beneath its wings a moment captured.

What inspires your blueprint for writing? Just imagine.

Think about the architect: Where do suppose he got the inspiration to build a house whose windows offer a 360° view from the ocean to mountains to a valley toward sunset and a sky flooded with city lights? What inspired a seamless expanse of glass? Could it be the influence of an intimate connection with nature?

Inspiration is nature viewed as a diamond in the rough. Take a break for whatever is going on in your life. Step outside. Look around. Each day try and notice something you did not see, hear or smell the day before. Captivating moments are right before your eyes, music to your ears, within your very grasp and under your nose waiting to be enjoyed. Walk among the wildflowers and take time to smell the rain!

 

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Push it to the Limit

Hello, world! Here we are Day 2 in 2013, full of vim and vigor with a bounce in our steps, rip-roaring and ready to go! Yep, New Year’s Eve has passed hopefully with at least a wee bit of sleep, New Year’s Day is over with bellies full of black-eye peas cooked with hog jowl and collard greens simmered in broth seasoned with country ham! And, don’t forget the cornbread…fried crisp and thin resembling doilies made of the finest lace. Of course, that is the Southern way and I can’t help it it you are NOT from the south. That means you just missed out, Bubba! [OK, lots of laughter here, my Northern and Western friends!]

Since catnip is all about feeling go-o-o-o-od let’s start this year off with a touch of catnip for the funny bone. Let’s tickle that fancy, wiggle to the beat and simply roll over laughing.

Afterward we can get serious but right now let’s just enjoy…

Ready? Get set. Go!

What do you say in making this year the best ever…
the most enjoyable,
the most loving,
the most productive,
the most memorable

You pick the category, pick them all, you decide…

It is YOUR life, YOUR year! Make it what YOU want it to be!


Push it to the limit!

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AULD LANG SYNE: The Good Old Times

NOTE: Don’t leave without watching the video below! In the meantime, let’s start with a slideshow!

Click the little caboose…


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As we soon will say goodbye to 2012, it is very important for me to thank all of catnip’s visitors and followers for some good old times throughout the year! You made (and continue to make) my day with your visits and especially when you left comments. By entering my world, you let a part of me inspire a part of you which in turn inspires others. Writing is a gift but only worthwhile if it tugs at the heart of its readers. One can write, write, write but if that written word is not read, nor acted upon, then its message is lost and becomes mere dust on a shelf, ashes in the wind.

Catnip is definitely graced with many wonderful followers. My goal in the new year is to visit each of you with the same gratitude you have shared with me. I’ve got a lot of visiting to do so I had better get started! I will not give up until each one has been visited, Liked and catnip added as your latest follower!

catnipoflife has been honored by Len @myownheart.me with being one of her Most Influential Blogs of 2012. Thank you, Len, but it is YOU who truly inspires me!

The Most Influential Blogs of 2012 Received from Len @myownheart.me

The Most Influential Blogs of 2012 Received from Len @myownheart.me

I never know on any given day who might be the most influential. Today it is Arlen Shahverdyan  from whom I would like to share a video he featured on his site today. In addition, catnipoflife would like to recognize Arlen as one of her Most Influential Blogs of 2012. Arlen is Armenian, fond of writing and is an eloquent speaker. He has already published 3 books (from 2008 to 2012).

Read more about Arlen, his writing, his poetry, his blog, his goals HERE! While visiting be sure to leave him a comment to let him know you stopped by and of course, he would love for you to become a Follower.

As with any award, the next step is to examine the rules.

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The Rules…SURPRISE! There are NO RULES except you MUST pay it forward, and that means, sometime in the next six (6) months you “should” choose the blogs you deem worthy of your label of The Most Influential Blogs of 2012. Those that have influenced you the most!

That’s it, no exception, no ands, ors, ifs or buts! There is ONE added notation:

EVERY blog I follow inspires me in some way so this award is quite difficult in choosing those that have had the most impact on my life this year. So, understand Arlen is just the beginning. He is the first to be followed with recognition of others within the six (6) month time frame. That means stay tuned, visit often for your name may be the next Most Influential Blog of 2012!

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All aboard! If you missed the ride in the beginning, Take the Train Along with Me now! Click on the caboose and enjoy the scenery! It may take a minute to load but well worth the wait!

Do you remember Floyd Cramer? Click HERE for more @Awakenings. . .

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Life is a Struggle, Accept it!

So often events of life leave us with questions without answers…Why is THIS happening? Why is this happening to ME? What did I DO? What did I do? WHY me? Why ME? WHY ME!

Life is a struggle, it is up to us to accept it. It IS a Bed of Roses full of many thorns. Yet from its thorny stem bursts forth velvety soft petals of such a rich radiance that its aromatic fragrance emits an essence of healing.

Next time you question WHY me? Why ME? WHY ME! reflect on the thankfulness of your ability to see the beauty! At that point, lift your head high, let the “Why me?” become Thank You!

beauty is all around us

hiding among
spines and thorns
of the cactus and rose

 Surrounding
the broken limbs
the naked branches

 Lying among
the ugly weeds
the dried up leaves

It sleeps, it waits
Timeless
in its splendor

 For just the right moment
To emit its power to heal

To soothe
To comfort
To embrace


©2012 catnipoflife
Sharla Lee Shults

 

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While just yesterday those of us of Christian faith celebrated the miracle of the virgin birth, today we all fall witness to the miracle of birth at any given moment somewhere across our planet as a new life begins.

UPDATE: It is December 28, 2012 and I just read the most remarkable post on The London Flower Lover!

Click Flowers for the little baby girl who was just born and you will ‘see’ what I mean!

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Will this baby
grow up surrounded
by love or war,
compassion or greed?
Will he learn kindness
or hate by his surroundings?
Will fear be his normality,
or will he reach for the stars?

We hold this child’s life
in our hands. What we do,
or do not do will be a
deciding factor. He is
our tomorrow.

 

 

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